Quick answer
What do you actually need?
Four things. Software provides all four; a spreadsheet provides the first one badly and none of the others.
Track sales back to a partner
A link, a coupon code, or both. Both is the right answer.
A commission rule
Percentage or flat, one-time or recurring, capped if recurring scares you.
A way to pay people
PayPal, Wise, bank or credits, plus tax forms for US partners.
Somewhere to sign up
A branded portal where partners see their own numbers.

